Compatible Matrimony for urban and progressive Indian singles

Break free from the limitations of traditional norms and privately find your lovely life-partner with India's first and best personality matchmaking and discovery platform.

On clicking, you will be taken to Listener Bot to build your AntRuhi profile. Learn more.

What's in for you

Verified & trusted profiles
Compatible matches
Security and Privacy

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AntRuhi's structure

[A] Website

It is the beautiful part that you see and where you learn about AntRuhi.

[B] Matchmaking engine

The Algorithm is like a secret ingredient that works behind the scenes. It's a special type of machine learning to find the best potential matches for you.

The Listener is a friendly talking platform where you can create your AntRuhi profile. It helps you find the most delightful and compatible potential matches. You can also show your interest in those matches and start conversations with them. It's like having a conversation partner to guide you through the process of finding your perfect match.

How AntRuhi works


Shortcake Listener understands your compatibility traits

On clicking the Start Here button, Shortcake Listener will pop up and will take you through step by step questions to understand your compatibility traits and will build your profile.



Your profile is verified on the backend. If details are found incorrect, you will not be allowed to proceed further and you will be notified on mail.


Matchmaking on the backend

Shortcake intelligent engine will find an awesome prospect for you where personalities of both of you match.


Time to show your smile

You and your prospect will be asked to mail your recent photos on


A mail of excitement

You and your prospect will be notified on mail about this match along with each other's profile and compatibility except your email addresses and consent to connect you two will be asked separately.


Live the story

Only if both of you indicate interest in each other and provide consent to connect, email addresses details of both of you will be shared to each other. And then you guys take it forward to make it an unforgetable connection. 😊

AntRuhi's disruptive features

Privacy and safety

Search, connect and commit in privacy, no family involvement. Your data is secured with highest standards.

Perfect matches

Get a dating driven matrimonial experience. Shortcake compatibility matching engine recommends you highly compatible profiles.

Verified handpicked Profiles

100% verified handpicked profiles with our big-data intelligence.

One-click Sign in

Its free

You don't have to pay anything.

Only email needed

The only contact we need from you is your email.

Convenient offboarding

Just drop us a mail and we will remove your profile from our system.

Weekly summaries

You will receive summary of your prospects every weekend.

Intent reversal

We maintian a day's padding before informing two about the match. You can reverse if you decided not to connect with prospect anymore during the day.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

No. Your profile will be created after you provide your email ID to Shortcake Listener. This will be required once in lifetime and your profile will be stored in AntRuhi's server.

You can send a request on to delete your profile or if any updates are required.

If you are new to AntRuhi and have not heard of it before, naturally we need to prove our environment of trust. There are few ways - (1) Go through media coverage, (2) See the real testimonials of users, (3) Go through LinkedIn and Instagram profiles of your prospects - URL to these profiles will be provided to you as they are matched to you, (4) We will not collect your phone number as we have built a business model that does not need a phone number, (5) We are resurrecting and we want to grow large along with your success in match finding, so we need your trust now and forever, hence all your data remains safe with us. Well you can hire a hacker and if the hacker is able to get your details, the entire hacker's fee and penalty for your data breach is on us! We assure this won't happen 😊

AntRuhi is a matrimony website that is building a better way for you to find your desired partner. At the core, AntRuhi's Shortcake algorithm works hard on recommending the most compatible ones to you. Each user is verified for your safety and only users who are serious for marriage gets to sign up and stay. If this is your thing too, then you are at the correct place. AntRuhi's emphasis is on love, compatbility and privacy. No matter whether you are open to get married in your own community or outside your community.

We want to keep it cost effective for users. Maintining an app is costly and we want to kee it frugal for users and ourselves.

This is not a part of our immediate strategy as our focus is on making Shortcake algorithm best in searching partner and matching compatibility while keeping the service cost effective. If you have a profile on AntRuhi, which you can build with Shortcake Listener, you will be notified if AntRuhi gets available on app.

AntRuhi will never call you. AntRuhi will only send communications through email address. AntRuhi will never ask you your payment details. If you ever receive a call, an email from some other email address, then you are requetsted not to respond. Write down a mail to explaining the fraud case and we will do our best to protect you from this.

Yes. we are actively committed to respond to your communications.

At AntRuhi, we believe compatibility goes beyond just numbers. Our algorithm considers various factors like interests, values, and lifestyle preferences to suggest potential matches. However, we understand that successful connections depend on deeper exploration and personal compatibility. We encourage you to actively engage with your matches, communicate openly, and make informed decisions based on your own unique preferences.

Founders had observed a gap in society after listening to rather unfunny incidences of matrimonial search by their friends through existing websites and apps, relatives and people whom they were dating. AntRuhi was launched with an entrepreneurial initiative to fill this gap and making the experience of finding your better half like a breathe of fresh air.

Shortcake works on machine learning which is designed with computer sience professor at IIT Kanpur. Profile verification is done using big-data intelligence.

Well, AntRuhi gives you superpowers, and you are expected to use the superpowers to find your better-half to settle with. Don't use it as a dating-only platform, go beyond that. You have lot of dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Truly-Madly, OkCupid, Happn etc. Use those apps if you want just a date. Use AntRuhi for good things beyond dating: connect > date > commit > marry.

Shortcake generates compatibility score for a man and woman. This score is natural. However, you can set your preferences about specifics and your compatibility score will be calculated only for users filtered by your preferences.

Section 377 of Indian Penal Code maintains same gender marriages to be illegal. Unfortunately, therefore AntRuhi does not have this facility.

No. AntRuhi does not entertain any such requests. AntRuhi does not work like a marriage bureau or marriage society. AntRuhi is an new-age automated service that finds prospects compatible for you as your better-half and works in a systematic way. Know more about its working here. Please note that requests to share contact details of wedding prospects will be ignored and you will receive no response to such requests.

Very simple. You start with Shortcake Listener. You build your compatibility profile using it. Go through how it works section to understand what happens step by step.


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